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Dating Tips For Divorcees
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Being a divorcee does not mean the end of
life. It is just the end of one part of life, which you want to
get rid of, and a beginning of a new and exciting one. Although
it is hard to come out of the feeling of being divorced, but you
do need a partner that brightens up your emotional life. For
successful dating even after being a divorcee, think and follow
these suggestions:
Think single. You are no longer one half of a couple.
Being single again takes some time getting used to it, so don't
expect it to be easy.
Accept that the relationship is over. Keep your distance
emotionally, and accept that you now lead separate lives. The
sooner you accept this, the quicker you will be able to find
happiness again.
Don't live in the past. Sure you've got some great
memories from your time together. If you find yourself wishing
that everything could be "like that" again, give yourself a
mental slap and remind yourself that there are some fantastic
moments waiting for you in the future.
Don't get desperate. If you have a hard time meeting
someone, keep trying. Don't settle for a superficial
relationship just to fill a void.
Don't get involved on the rebound! Keep your dates light
and remember that there is a broad line between getting to know
a person and bonding a close, intimate relationship. |
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