Location – If you are not in a position of moving, you want most of the online dating services to provide you access to people in your area. While some people can move to a new geographical area, most cannot or will not. Keep in mind that most of the major online dating services feature the option of searching for people where you live while still providing the opportunity for other people in different cities, states, or countries to view your profile, and vice versa.

First Impressions – If you were going out to a bar or restaurant in anticipation of meeting someone, you would dress nice, have your hair just right, and smell great, all as a way of making a first impression. Although you would not make these same preparations for online dating, you do need to make a positive impression. Start with your profile. Be honest, witty, and always check your spelling and grammar. Make sure your profile does not ramble on about "stuff" but provides the right type of information to intrigue. The same is true for e-mail communication. Keep the conversation light and fun, providing just enough of the right information to want the person to come back for more.

Photographs – Make sure you post photographs with your profile and choose several that show your fun side. The key is to make the person on the other side of the computer smile!

Flirt – Can you flirt online? Absolutely you can. In fact, many online dating services provide you with special tools specifically for flirting. You can wink at someone, blow kisses, and send special messages.

Options – Keep your options open. For instance, you may receive an e-mail from someone that does not capture your attention right away. However, before you discount that individual, take a minute to read the profile. After all, if it is not a love connection, this person might make an excellent friend.